"To quote my dad, 'That school was a salvation for you. There were two people in beautiful clothes, a man and a woman with a parasol, walking away from you. // dataType: 'json', join our mailing list. Its a really amazing thing to do, to stroll on a warm night with a glass of wine.In a place like this, it certainly is. prefix = 'artnet_newsletter_'; As tough as he was on his parents and stepmother, he was also tough on himself. William Van Meter in Partnership With Royal Salute Scotch Whisky. At Nimbus Arts, Neil teaches a myriad of dynamic and very popular blade smithing classes. Old, young, every ethnic group. info@nimbusarts.org, 2023 nimbus arts tax ID: 27-1503762, Nimbus Arts But its not just milestones that make the house special; its also everyday moments. For the Fine Arts Museums, I recently bought a Canaletto at the Getty auction. + '<\/div>' To find out if you are eligible for an Artnet News Pro group subscription, + '<\/div>' "The clich 'truth is stranger than fiction' may well have been coined to describe Sean Wilsey's wild, wise, and whip-smart memoir." Elle "[An] irreverent and remarkably candid memoir about growing up in wealthy eighties San Francisco . return; Her first husband was steamship executive John Traina, whom she met in her hometown of Washington, D.C. Tax ID 26-4008029. On Thursday we open the Al Thani jewel collection, which is magnificent., Wilsey also sits on the boards of the San Francisco Opera and San Francisco Balletboth causes that she champions and supports. I have to sit here, and we cant change places. expiration_days: 14 My parents always had friends around and there was a lot of entertaining, and summer was spent hereall summer.. Carolyne Zinko, a native of Wisconsin, joined The San Francisco Chronicle in 1993 as a news reporter covering Peninsula crime, city government and political races. Wilseys legacy is the de Young Museum. "All of our good times were up here," Trevor, son of the late shipping mogul John Traina and the philanthropist Dede Wilsey, says of the six-acre property. She was born Diane Dow Buchanan in 1944, to Mr. and Mrs. Wiley T. Buchanan, Jr. Society brat grows up, stops throwing oranges at cars on Russian Hill and escapes to the East Coast. crossDomain: true, }, Soon I too succumbed to the valleys charms and convinced my dad that he needed to hire me. Thats how I started collecting. Subscribe to our newsletter to get the breaking news, eye-opening interviews, and incisive critical takes that drive the conversation forward. A renowned artist, entertainer, and major league raconteur, Ira Yaeger also happens to be my mothers best friend. Governed by a dedicated board of prominent vintners and local leaders, the Festival enriches the heart and soul of Napa Valley through its diverse programs. By the time the company was sold, a few years ago, I was its longest-serving employee. } else { Some of the trees are 130 years old. link.type = 'text/css'; That art needed a home, so I think it was pretty simple, we just had to rebuild it. While it was 10 years of hard work, Wilsey counts the de Young as the achievement she is most proud of. She got a job at I. Magnin, married and divorced again and threw theme parties for the social set that attracted media attention. I think everyone makes mistakes in the heat of the passion of buying something. }); // =================================================================== She also told her son that she had cancer and would "be dead by Christmas," but mysteriously, lived on -- with no explanation as to her recovery. } But I can understand what theyre talking about when you have human feces and syringes and all these things. The fact that they are all-inclusive. A cross-country move to California came next. His own parents bought the land around 1969 from the Rainier Brewing Company. if (typeof ouibounce !== 'undefined') { } } Their May engagement was followed in August by a garden wedding for 400 in the tiny Napa town of Oakville. $('body').on( 'click', '.close-signup', function(){ The new Mission Bay hospital complex will include: a 183-bed UCSF Children's Hospital to replace inpatient . Everybody you can imagine. I am thankful for what Nimbus Arts has done for the community and look forward to continue working with them to increase access to art for all of Napa Countys residents and visitors., Diane Dillon, Supervisor, District 3, County of Napa, Everyone at Nimbus is friendly, accommodating and supportive. Photo courtesy of Spencer Brown. We may earn commission on some of the items you choose to buy. In my bathroom, I have dog portraits and Chinese export porcelain. More than 200 artists, wineries, resorts, theaters, restaurants, chefs, and vintners participate each year, joining with audiences, patrons, staff and volunteers to create a vibrant and vital community. . "So many memories are connected to being outdoors," Roman says. After it was damaged by the 1989 earthquake, Wilsey single-handedly raised the necessary funds to build a new museum. As happens with some memoirs, author and subject appear to be in two polarized camps, with Wilsey's friends protecting him and his stepmothers' friends protectively closing ranks around her. William Van Meter in Partnership With Royal Salute Scotch Whisky, while (c.charAt(0)==' ') { + '' Dede Wilsey's House in Napa, CA (Google Maps) (#3) Napa, California (CA), US. // don't show it on paywall-related pages where the user might be in the process The festival underwent a major rebranding in 2016, changing its name to Festival Napa Valley. I buy a lot of Chinese export porcelain. I recently purchased a Gerome, a portrait of his daughter. Wilsey and I are 30 minutes into an hour-long conversation, and I . Trevor's father, the late John Traina, was a winegrower and vintner in the Napa Valley for many years. .css-4975pa{-webkit-text-decoration:none;text-decoration:none;text-decoration-thickness:0.0625rem;text-decoration-color:inherit;text-underline-offset:0.25rem;color:#fff;-webkit-transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;display:inline-block;background-color:#030929;font-family:Termina,Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:0.75rem;line-height:1;font-weight:bold;letter-spacing:0.02rem;padding:0.6rem 0.7rem;text-transform:uppercase;width:auto;}.css-4975pa:hover{color:#fff;text-decoration-color:border-link-body-hover;background-color:#9a0500;}.css-4975pa:focus-visible{outline-color:body-cta-btn-link-focus;}Subscribe Now, .css-1du65oy{color:#323232;display:block;font-family:NewParis,Georgia,Times,serif;font-weight:normal;margin-bottom:0.3125rem;margin-top:0;-webkit-text-decoration:none;text-decoration:none;-webkit-font-smoothing:auto;}@media (any-hover: hover){.css-1du65oy:hover{color:link-hover;}}@media(max-width: 48rem){.css-1du65oy{font-size:1.0625rem;line-height:1.2;}}@media(min-width: 40.625rem){.css-1du65oy{font-size:1.0625rem;line-height:1.2;}}@media(min-width: 64rem){.css-1du65oy{font-size:1.3125rem;line-height:1.2;}} The Parisian Hotel Where Joyce Finished Ulysses. It also has Wilsey's painful quest for love, understanding and acceptance from his mother, former San Francisco Examiner society columnist Pat Montandon; his late father, philanthropist and food magnate Al Wilsey; and in particular, his stepmother, Diane "Dede" Wilsey, one of the city's most powerful and admired arts patrons, who led the 10-year- effort to build the $202 million new de Young Museum in Golden Gate Park. Because we put on exhibitions of every kind. They embrace everybody. She is the granddaughter of Herbert Henry Dow, founder of the American multinational conglomerate Dow Chemical. It saved you,' " Wilsey writes. } Oct 21, 2022, By }, Presumably, when the press tour begins, Wilsey, who is married, has a son and lives in New York, will explain the motivation for the book, whose release roughly coincides with the final stages of completion of the new de Young. Picking up where Robert Mondavi left off, the Harlan family has completely rewritten the playbook of American wine. "A fact checker from the New Yorker called the other day, and every fact they checked with me was wrong," she said. The longtime supporter of the Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco on the Caillebotte that got away and the pleasures of pet portraiture. I opened the French Laundry to celebrate the work of the farmers, fishermen, winemakers, foragers, and other purveyors who work directly with the land of this beautiful place. Photographed & Styled By Claiborne Swanson Frank, The Parisian Hotel Where Joyce Finished Ulysses, From Town & Country for Cayman Islands Department of Tourism, Your Privacy Choices: Opt Out of Sale/Targeted Ads. ctx.submit($form, onSuccess); A national book-signing tour is scheduled to follow. We really didnt want it to leave San Francisco. Married four times. I couldnt care less. url: $form.attr('action'), She recounts a recent party for museum directors that took place in the de Youngs tower on one of those rare San Francisco nights where there was no fog: It was so beautiful. By year two, the festival added the free Bouchaine Vineyards-sponsored Young Artists concerts and the Dede Wilsey Dance Series. Then Montandon became hostess of a TV show, where she caught Al Wilsey's eye. In August 2016, Trump came to the Bay Area for fundraisers at private homes in Napa and on the Peninsula. }; Want to stay ahead of the art world? Website design by Compass Marketing, websitedevelopmentbyStoryWorkz. Every item on this page was chosen by a Town & Country editor. This is a family home; its very comfortable and familiar., The decor is an assemblage of styles, though most are heirlooms and antiques set in place by Trevors mother. }); Alexis and I were married there on the front lawn, Trevor recalls, and our son was christened here. But though they threatened to give up on him, his mother, Montandon, and his father continued to support him financially, ever trying to find a new school that would set him straight. }); + '
' However, Montandon, reached by telephone at her home in Beverly Hills, said that she had read it and that her son was brave to write it. Dede Wilsey said she has no intention of reading the memoir. Festival Napa Valley celebrates musics unmatched power to enrich, uplift and inspire. Arriving at their historic, Victorian-style Oakville home, its easy to understand why the pairknown for their notable art collection, philanthropy and omnipresence on the San Francisco social scenepack up their kids almost every weekend and head here to unwind. Since then, she has worked for the Sunday Style and Datebook sections, covering gala night openings and writing trend pieces. The author of "Oh the Glory of It All." Its a museum picture and it really belongs in a museum. I am truly a happy camper!, Dianne Martinez, Nimbus Arts first ArtPass holder, The caliber and quality of Nimbus Arts programming is exemplary. Resolved: Release in which this issue/RFE has been resolved. UCSF Medical Center has named Diane "Dede" Wilsey to lead the philanthropic effort on behalf of UCSF Medical Center's new state-of-the art clinical facility planned for construction at Mission Bay. Crabb, a Napa Valley pioneer who founded the To Kalon winery. setTimeout(function() { The fact that in the Bay Area no female is as graceful and giving as Wilsey. Their imaginative approach is consistently fun, educational and innovative. var expires = "expires="+d.toUTCString(); Early in life, he decided that emotions "had made my mom crazy, and I would not succumb to that." Iwas just visiting my one son who lives in Austria, now, she mentions casually. $modal.show(); Dede Wilsey has been a supporter of the de Young Museum in San Francisco since 1998, but she only began collecting art for herself a few years later, when she was looking for a place to put her energy after the death of her husband, dairy and real-estate tycoon Al Wilsey. I started to research my book, From Napa with Love, which was published by Abrams in September, by reaching out to the areas most colorful characters, people I grew up around or just admired, like film-maker and writer Roman Coppola, interior designer Ken Fulk, and Elizabeth Swanson, my wonderfully talented mother. What work do you wish you had bought when you had the chance? She acknowledges that the city isnt what it used to be saying that there are too many people, too many cars and that without question the biggest problem is the homelessness. Festival Napa Valley was founded in 2006. Dede Wilsey, born Diane Dow Buchanan, was the great-granddaughter of the founder of Dow Chemical Co. Dede Wilsey is a San Francisco socialite, Republican donor and philanthropist, and the widow of San Francisco businessman Al Wilsey. "I'm surprised I'm in the book -- I wouldn't know Sean Wilsey if he walked in my front door," said de Wildt, a Hollander known for his witty one- liners and scathing put-downs. As soon as people start reading "Oh the Glory of It All," which reconstructs conversations and gives his version of his life history to date, they'll begin debating whether his views are accurate or not. What about in your bathroom? We are bound to one another by the kind of esprit de corps that comes with the pursuit of magicmagic in the vineyards, on the table, at the drawing board. It concerns me greatly. On March 22, local booksellers gathered at the Presidio for a private meet-and-greet with Wilsey, an editor at large at McSweeney's Quarterly -- a hip, nationally distributed literary magazine co-founded by San Francisco author Dave Eggers. closeSignupBar(); + '
' Her bid for $57, 000 a month was rejected in court, and the judge advised her to get a job. I was there with John Buchanan, our director at the time. What a gift to our community! $form.find('.signup-failed').show().siblings().hide(); As my temporary unemployment began, I knew I wanted to use my free time to tell the story of the valley, and to do it in a way that would illuminate the fact that life here is no longer centered exclusively on wine. Register Now. Board of Supervisors and return motorists to the JFK Promenade through Golden Gate Park. //default prefix is 'artnet_newsletter_' Jo Lawson-Tancred, I knew the house prior to the fire, and I was so crazy for it, says Alexis, who moved from Florida with her family to the region in the mid-1980s. }, if (!o[this.name].push) { //if any of these cookies are found, we don't show the modal. She divorced Traina in 1980 and married Al Wilsey, divorced by then from Montandon, in May 1981. (function defernl() { Microsoft has removed the Birds Eye imagery for this map. Dede Wilsey isn't the only one taken to task. Dede Wilsey, an arts benefactor in San Francisco, at her home in the Napa Valley. In recent years, Wilsey has become one of the top tier socialites in San Francisco and the unstoppable force behind the construction of the new de Young Museum, which one wag in town has taken to calling the "Dede Young.". Your Privacy Choices (Opt Out of Sale/Targeted Ads). "What's impressive is the degree to which he acknowledges the good and the bad in both sets of parents," Maupin said. Pin. Wilsey recently spoke to Artnet News from her San Francisco home, where commissioned portraits of her dogs share wall space with Monet and Kandinsky. //don't run this function if the user has already triggered the modal by leaving the viewport Thirty-two years ago my serial entrepreneur father, Clarke Swanson, got an itch, a romantic notion of the American dream, and in the blink of an eye purchased a hundred acres in Napa Valley, on Oakville Cross Road. TaxID#26-4008029. } The Venetian scene was due to be auctioned off as part of another prominent San Francisco collection, that of Ann and Gordon Getty, with an estimate of $6 million to $9 millionbut the San Francisco Fine Art Museums nabbed it hours before the sale was due to begin. The festival attracts over 10,000 guests each season. function getCookie(cname, prefix) { Financial support from Ann and Gordon Getty, Tatiana and Gerret Copeland, Peter T. Paul, Athena and Timothy Blackburn, Maria Manetti Shrem, Dede Wilsey, John Traina, and Robert and Margrit Mondavi, among others in addition to the generous support of numerous individuals, partner wineries, resorts and hotels, and local businesses helped launch what is now one of the countrys top summer festivals. "Sean has every right in the world to write his story, and I applaud him for it, 100 percent." "He's simply trying to cast an honest eye on himself and his family. Because we put on exhibitions of every kind. Which works or artists are you hoping to add to your collection this year? By WWD Staff. His addition to our metal arts team sharpened our offerings and his popular programs have proven to be a cut above! var d = new Date(); "In my opinion, most of these books are written for one of three reasons -- money, self-aggrandizement or a vendetta," she said. + '<\/div>' return numDays * 24 * 60; link.href = fileName; I wasnt quite sure what that meant, just that I wanted to work with them.. She specializes in portraiture and creates images that feel like intimate X-rays, pictures full of textured physical details set against back-drops of personal history. var c = ca[i]; But that doesnt mean Wilsey, or any of her family, will hide. Since then, Dede has built a formidable collection of Impressionist art . Napa Valley's flagship festival presents international stars and emerging talent in free and affordable concerts in iconic venues, and to audiences virtually worldwide. function setNewsletterCookie(cookieName, value) { head.appendChild(link); }); Everything she says feels like it could be a secretand its utterly captivating. Wilseys pride, admiration, and love for her family are evident and strong. Europe's Most Luxurious Train Rolls Again! + '<\/div>' Napa Valleys flagship festival presents international stars and emerging talent in free and affordable concerts in iconic venues, and to audiences virtually worldwide. link.rel = 'stylesheet'; And I typically react when I see something and it touches me. In fact, we planned a big outdoor christening, but it rainedand it never rains in Napa. The quick-thinking couple cleared out all the furniture in the seldom-used formal parlor to allow about 60 guests to gather inside for the ceremony. 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He has two guards with him at all times. "I don't think you can overestimate the size of the mushroom cloud that will appear over Pacific Heights," said author Armistead Maupin, whose 1976 serial "Tales of the City" provided a fictional mirror for real-life San Francisco personalities. Also Known As: Diane Dow Buchanan, Diane B. Wilsey, Dede Buchanan Wilsey, Dede. + '<\/div>' Festival Napa Valley is a music, food, wine and lifestyle festival held in Napa Valley, California. Although her role as a member of the board has her at the museum several days of the week, she looks at the de Young with childlike wonder. Traina has his own Napa vineyard . + ' @media (max-width: 767px){ .close-signup {top:0 !important;} }' The To Kalon vineyards, which are all around us, have several different owners now, but fetch some of the highest prices in the world for grapes, Trevor explains. Or that rich people have cliques, just like everyone else, but because so few people are so very rich, the pool of friends and prospective spouses is small, making for lots of interconnected relationships. You learn all about what that art is and that artist. Its as if shes seeing it for the first time. What Im trying to do is make the city a better place. }, 100); She was a part of the search committee that found the new director of the, Another thing she loves about the museums? Thats scary. //console.log(prefix + cname + "=" + cvalue + ";" + expires + ";path=/"); ". Steel and Traina split up in 1995. } Historically, its mind-blowing, she says. Great. Trainas security detail isnt for every ambassador, only the Israeli Ambassador and the American Ambassador require the extra protection because of ISIS. 74 is the new 54 and Wilseys bubbly blonde beauty has not faded. She declined to address specifics in the memoir. } They were priced out. She also is featured prominently in her stepson Sean Wilsey's memoir Oh the Glory of it All in which the author describes her as his "evil stepmother". Helsinki, Finland - July 19, 2017 Co-operation begins with interfaces for NAPA Steel and NDES Beagle, linking early-stage design with production planning NAPA, a leading global maritime software, services and data analysis provider, and NTT Data Engineering Systems (NDES), Japanese experts in maritime software development and engineering, today announced collaboration on ship design and .